Last evening one of my students confessed that he was having a rough day and felt "out of it." I considered what to do in this situation for a moment. Some teachers may just accept that the lesson will be mediocre and try to shuffle through the 26 remaining minutes. I suggest a different strategy.
Instead of pitying the student his unhappy circumstances, I asked him to step it up. This lesson must be even better, more focused, more productive than a regular lesson. I told him to take a moment to set aside whatever it was that he had done prior to stepping into my studio, as well as whatever he will do once he leaves.
It was time to live in the moment. Focus solely on the task at hand. And I bet you can guess what happened then. He played his Minuet in G seamlessly by memory. It was one of the most gratifying stickers I've ever awarded.
I am a private music teacher of violin, voice, piano and guitar, but most of my students are violinists. My degree is in vocal performance and I love what I do. If I had time and money to go back to school, I would study music theory in order to teach it at the collegiate level.
One of my life goals is to become Alexander Technique certified in order to better help my students, family and friends.
I am a Christ follower, am married to my high school sweetheart, who is the love of my life, and I count every day a blessing that I do not deserve!
how true in life! Maybe the main thing learned in lessons are the life lessons.
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